What You Do vs How You Do it (Get Back Together Help) By Clay Andrews

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You want to get back together with your ex but you  are not sure how to go about it. You call your ex up and you say that you need to talk. You tell him that you miss him, and that you are sorry that things went wrong but when he tells you that he does not want to talk about it, you get upset. You feel that he is slipping away and so you panic. You tell him you don’t care then and you walk away. Next day, you contact him again and say that you did not mean what you said and you are sorry. Urgh. Stop!

You are bound to be emotional but control it

Running away with your emotions is what could totally spoil any chances of getting back together with your ex.You need to train yourself to be in control of how you handle your feelings if you want to be able to get your ex back. You have to understand that being allover the place will make you look crazy, It will make your ex think that he did the right thing in being away from you. You have to stand out as being different to other exes that he has had. Be well put together and he will want you.

Try the 30 day no contact rule.

Try the 30 day no contact rule and see what happens. You have nothing to lose but everything to gain. You have to be serious about this. You don’t want to get back with your ex and just go back to where you were do you? You want things to work. And so you need to show your ex that you are serious about making things work. You need to give things some space so that when you do get back in contact with your ex he will take what you have to say more seriously.

Take 30 days where you work on yourself and do not ‘try’t to get your ex back.

You need to understand what went wrong and you need to make things okay again, make yourself be as strong and independent as you can be so you can handle your emotions and empathise with how your ex is feeling. Let him see that you do care, and your priority is his welfare, and not just yours, not just getting him back regardless of what has happened or what may happen.

Think carefully about what you do want to say.

When you do get to talk to your ex, be sure that you know what you want to say as you may only have a short time in which to say things so avoid wanting to get one up on your ex and say how you really feel and if he means something to you, don’t play games, tell him and tell him how you have realized what needs changing and want to work on things. Honesty goes a long way.

About Clay and Mika

Clay and Mika are the creators of Ex Solution Program and help couples get back together.

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